MY VICTORY VOYAGE || Be Content—Don’t Resent || The Secret Strength of Contentment

In MY VICTORY VOYAGE I’m sharing various trials I’ve faced and how God’s faithfulness has carried me through. Join me on the 2nd Friday of each month in 2025 as we reflect on His restoration and grace. This is the final column in this series.

“Not that I was ever in need, for I have learned how to be content with whatever I have.” — Philippians 4:11 (NLT)

I’ve always considered myself a fairly happy person. Yet lately, I’ve noticed discontentment sneaking in more—not in the big things, but in the small, everyday routines of life. I’ll be scrolling social media and suddenly feel a twinge of longing. Friends traveling, celebrating, or enjoying life in ways that seem more exciting than my own simple rhythms. Before I know it, joy has slipped into comparison, and comparison has turned into resentment.

But God has been whispering a phrase to my heart: “Be Content—Don’t Resent.”

The Apostle Paul understood this secret well. He wrote that he had “learned how to be content whether he had plenty or whether he was in need.” The secret wasn’t in his circumstances—it was in his Savior. Paul drew his strength from Christ, not from possessions, achievements, or experiences.

My Life Application Study Bible explains it like this:

“Paul knew how to be content whether he had plenty or whether he was in need. The secret was drawing on Christ’s power for strength. If you are always wanting more, ask God to remove that desire and teach you contentment in every circumstance.”

Contentment is something we learn—it doesn’t come naturally. It’s cultivated by shifting our gaze from what we lack to the abundance we already have in Christ. When I thank Him for the small blessings—a quiet morning, a warm cup of coffee, the love of my husband, the joy of my dogs—resentment begins to melt away. The ordinary becomes extraordinary when I see it through the lens of gratitude.

If you find yourself restless or longing for more, here are a few simple practices to try:

    • Pray daily for contentment. Ask God to help you see your life the way He sees it.
    • Practice gratitude. Write down three small blessings each day and thank Him for them.
    • Guard your heart. Limit the voices or images (like social media) that stir up discontent.
    • Rest in His promises. Trust that God will supply all your needs in the way He knows is best.

Friend, contentment isn’t about settling for less—it’s about discovering the secret strength of Christ in every circumstance. Paul learned it, which means you and I can learn it too. Let’s choose to be content, not resentful, and find joy in the One who makes even the simplest parts of life enough.


A Closing Reflection

As I wrap up this year-long journey of My Victory Voyage, I am humbled by how faithful God has been. Month by month, we’ve walked through storms, questions, struggles, and triumphs together. Each step has reminded me that victory isn’t found in perfect circumstances—it’s found in the steady presence of Jesus.

From anxiety and fear, to learning how to trust, surrender, and now contentment, this voyage has been as much yours as it has been mine. My prayer is that the stories and scriptures we’ve shared have met you in your own moments of weakness and reminded you of God’s unchanging strength.

This final column closes with Paul’s words: “I have learned to be content with whatever I have” (Philippians 4:11). Contentment isn’t instant, and it isn’t easy, but it is possible through Christ. If we take nothing else from this journey, may we carry this truth forward: His grace is enough, His power is our strength, and His presence is our victory.

Thank you for sailing with me on this year’s voyage. Until we meet again, may you walk daily in His peace, His victorious love and His joy!

THE HOLY SPIRIT :: FRUIT – LOVE AND JOY

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On the second  Friday of each month in 2021 we’re studying the Holy Spirit. We will learn who the Holy Spirit is, about His gifts and fruit given to us as believers and how to walk those out in our life each day. This is the fourth post in The Holy Spirit Study series.

While the gifts of Holy Spirit are virtues, the fruit are the resulting moral actions that flow from those gifts. With the help of Holy Spirit we are able to walk in these fruit during our daily lives and display them to those around us. In today’s post we will focus on the fruit of love and joy.

But the fruit produced by the Holy Spirit within you is divine love in all its varied expressions: joy that overflows, peace that subdues, patience that endures, kindness in action, a life full of virtue, faith that prevails, gentleness of heart, and strength of spirit. ~ Galatians 5:22

LOVE is key. Without it nothing we do matters.

But earnestly desire and zealously cultivate the greatest and best gifts and graces (the higher gifts and the choicest graces). And yet I will show you a still more excellent way [one that is better by far and the highest of them all—love]. ~ 1 Corinthians 12:31 

Love heads up the list of all the fruit of the Spirit. It is not only the foundation, but holds all the other fruit together. Love is the greatest manifestation of God’s Presence in our lives. If we are not having regular personal contact with God in His Word, prayer and worship, this fruit will be missing in the action of our life.  Without love our faith doesn’t mean anything.

CONFESS LOVE OVER YOUR LIFE TODAY (from 1 Corinthians 13)

“I am patient and kind. I am not envious or boastful, rude or haughty. I’m not self-seeking. I don’t insist on my own way. I’m not touchy or fretful. I never fail because God’s love is in me!”

JOY in abundance overflows from His Presence!

With triumphant joy you will drink deeply
from the wells of salvation. ~ Isaiah 12:3

God puts His joy in us when we’re born again. Unlike the temporary happiness the world has to offer, joy isn’t dependent on outward circumstances. Rather it’s a powerful force that resides in us and overflows in abundance as we continue in personal contact with God by His Word, worship and prayer. The more fellowship we have with Him, the more joy will flow in our life.

CONFESS JOY OVER YOUR LIFE TODAY (from 2 Corinthians 2:14)

“I’m not moved by my circumstance or what I see. I am only moved by God’s Word and He always brings me to victory. I choose praise and thanksgiving. I choose joy today!”

Stay in close personal contact with God each day to walk in the abundance of the fruit of love and joy in your life. Be intentional to spend time with God in His Word and participate in some form of worship and prayer time. When we do we will find our levels of love and joy will increase exponentially.

Today we have two videos to top off our post! These songs will get the love and joy fruit of the Spirit energies flowing in your life. Turn it up for: Real Love by Hillsong Young and Free and Joy by For King and Country.