MY RECOVERY WORK THIS YEAR IS FOCUSED ON THE PRINCIPLES BEHIND THE 12 STEPS. WE’RE ASKING KEY QUESTIONS THAT WILL HELP US LEARN THESE CORE VALUES SO WE CAN PUT THEM INTO PRACTICE.
STEP TEN:
Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.
PRINCIPLE TEN:
TRUST
KEY QUESTION:
How do I live not knowing outcomes?
As I write this column my husband’s youngest brother is fighting for his life in ICU. My husband is in job transition and we are looking for a new place to live.
If there was ever a season of uncertain outcomes it is now.
Recovering addicts don’t like the unknown. We want to have a plan or at least something that resembles a plan. But most of life is handed to us on a blank sheet of paper.
Seemingly we are left to find our own direction.
Without the help of God it would be very easy to curl up and stop caring. It takes determination to get out of bed, put each foot in front of the other and try to do the next right thing.
Principle Ten asks us to Trust.
Can we trust ourselves to do the next right thing?
Can we trust others to accept us even if we don’t?
Change has gotten easier with age. But today I’m struggling through the uncertainty.
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